Finding purpose through a lifelong love for Billiards

An inspiring story of Bhushan Raj Ramdeva (Khyaal Community Member)

“My name is Bhushan Raj Ramdeva, and I am 65 years old residing in Faridabad. I completed my B.Com., from Bombay University in 1985. After graduating I worked in the finance and accounts sector.

In 1977 we moved from Kalyan to Parel in Mumbai. The residential area we lived in had a well-equipped railway club that provided recreational facilities like a library, table tennis, and boxing, apart from billiards and snooker. Since my father was employed with the railways, I had access to this club.

Among the other games, I was more drawn towards playing billiards and snooker. In the initial days, I played billiards casually, balancing my studies, work, and other commitments. I would dedicate an hour or so to practice after college and later after work. As my interest deepened, I began participating in local tournaments in Mumbai.

The first major tournament I participated in was the Matharpacady Tournament in Mazgaon, Mumbai. I regularly participated in various tournaments in Mumbai. My performances in these local tournaments helped me refine my game and understand the competitive aspects of billiards and snooker.

In 1986, a colleague suggested that I should become billiards and snooker referee. I found the idea interesting and decided to give it a try. From 1986 to 1990, I worked as a referee, which gave me a new way of looking at the game. Unlike playing, refereeing required a deep knowledge of the rules and sharp attention to detail. Watching skilled players up close also helped me learn more and improve my own game. In 1990, my father retired from the railways and we moved to Faridabad. Due to family responsibilities and career commitments, I had to step away from billiards entirely.

I retired in March 2019 and started looking out for ways to keep myself engaged and active. Among various interests, my passion for billiards stood out prominently. This was not just a game for me; it was an old love that had been side lined due to the demands of my professional life. However, after retirement, I found an opportunity to reconnect with this sport—not as a player but as a referee.

I had always enjoyed watching and analysing the game, but with age, my eyesight had weakened, making it difficult to play at a competitive level. Bending down and aligning shots was no longer feasible, but standing as a referee and observing the game closely was an exciting alternative. It allowed me to stay connected to the sport without the physical strain of playing.

My journey as a referee again began in 2024, with my first assignment being the Delhi State Tournament held in July-August 2024. Every state organizes such tournaments to select players for national competitions. Shortly after, in September 2024, I had the opportunity to officiate at the Uttar Pradesh State Tournament held in Agra. These experiences were fulfilling, and they led me to my next major milestone—the National Tournament, which took place from January 17th to 10th February, 2025 at Indore.

Being part of these tournaments has been a remarkable experience. I have had the privilege of meeting top players, some of whom compete at international levels. Interacting with them and understanding their approach to the game has been truly enriching. It has given me a renewed sense of purpose and belonging within the billiards community.

This is not just a game for me; it has taught me valuable life lessons. It has improved my focus, precision, and patience. Being a referee has also kept me physically active. Moving around the table all the time feels like a good workout, almost like walking long distances. Moreover, it also helps improve memory and math skills as referees need to keep track of scores in real-time.

When I am not involved in tournaments, I keep myself engaged with various Khyaal activities. I particularly enjoy participating in daily events such as Antakshari, quiz programs, Sudoku, Tambola, and Bollywood-themed contests. Occasionally, I also join morning yoga sessions.

Post retirement my life has become more fulfilling. As I move forward, I remain open to learning, evolving, and contributing in whatever way I can. My advice to fellow seniors is simple—stays active. Doing something you enjoy makes life more fulfilling and gives you a sense of purpose.” - Bhushan Raj Ramdeva (Khyaal Community Member)