Story of following passion, finding joy and purpose after retirement

An inspiring story of Sreekala G.R. (Khyaal Community Member)

“My name is Sreekala G.R. and I am 68 years old. I was born and brought up in Thiruvananthapuram, Kerala. I pursued my Bachelor’s degree in Zoology from Women’s College in Thiruvananthapuram. In the first year of my postgraduate studies, I was fortunate to secure a job at the State Bank of Travancore. I began my career as a clerk and retired as Chief Manager in 2016.

I have two children, a son and a daughter both settled with their families. My husband, Sri Pradeep Kumar, passed away in 2010. Currently, I live alone, in Thiruvananthapuram. Retirement has given a fresh start to my second innings in which I finally have found time to pursue my passions and hobbies.

During my school days, I used to be a part of group dance performances at various events. In college, I continued participating in Thiruvathira and dramas, and even while working at the bank, I was part of the cultural events. However, it was only after retirement that I finally had the time to fully pursue my passion for singing and dancing. I had joined a music club two years earlier before my retirement, and actively participated in their monthly programs. After retirement, my involvement with them grew, and I took part in practice sessions and performances regularly. Currently, I am an active member of four music clubs, enthusiastically participating in their events.
This led me to take lessons in Kudiyattam which is an ancient Sanskrit theatre art form at Margi. My teacher taught me to present Karnan's story in the form of Koodiyattam style and I recently performed an Ottanthullal for Onam. Though I didn’t perform the entire Koodiyattam, I focused on the introduction and story presentation, which was a deeply enriching experience. Stepping into this world of classical art felt like entering a sacred space of tradition and storytelling. I never imagined that I would one day learn and perform such prestigious art forms. Wearing the costume, putting on the makeup and being able to wear the crown of Ottamthullal and Koodiyattam itself is a blessing. Once you are ready in the costume, you are no more yourself, but the character you are playing. It is an opportunity to be someone completely different in an imaginative world. It was a journey I never planned, yet it became one of the most fulfilling parts of my life. This experience has strengthened my love for both dance and music, bringing me great joy and a sense of purpose.

I am also involved in two retirement associations—one for all retired bank employees in Thiruvananthapuram and another specific to my bank. Through these platforms, I contribute to cultural programs, especially during festivals.

I believe that one should always increase their knowledge through learning new things. In 2018, I completed a diploma in Counseling Psychology. Although the pandemic halted my plans to establish a Counseling Center, I kept myself engaged with online activities. Eventually, a common friend led me to recording readings for visually impaired individuals.This included recordings of Mathrubhumi Weekly and novels, which I shared through WhatsApp groups. Listening to their feedback has always been truly rewarding.

My thirst for learning continues to drive me. During my school days, I had Sanskrit as my second language, but I had learned only the basics of the language. Hence, I decided to refresh my knowledge and joined a four-stage Sanskrit course. I have already completed the first two stages with distinction. Learning Sanskrit not only keeps my brain active but also allows me to read and understand epic texts like the Bhagavad Gita, Bhagavatham, and Kalidasa’s Shakuntalam. It helps with pronunciation, understanding shlokas, and appreciating their deeper meanings. Engaging with this ancient language has been an enriching experience, reminding me that age is no barrier to education.

Although I am retired, my days are busy and filled with various activities. I start my day with meditation and exercise. Sometimes I attend rehearsals for upcoming performances. On days without rehearsals, Khyaal keeps me positively engaged. I particularly enjoy the Carnatic music sessions conducted by the Kerala community. I love the Khyaal singing group and make it a point to listen to the recordings shared by other members. I also enjoy playing games like Tambola and Sudoku. I often participate in various contests run by them as well. What I love about Khyaal is that it brings seniors together and gives them a platform to explore talents they couldn’t pursue earlier due to life’s responsibilities. I feel immense happiness seeing my fellow members sing, laugh, and participate in various activities. More than anything, Khyaal provides a space to be heard and cared for, which is invaluable for people like us.
So, at 68, I believe that retirement is not about slowing down; it is about discovering a world of possibilities. Life is a beautiful journey, and age is just a number. One piece of advice for fellow seniors is: Keep your mind young, energetic, and curious, and your body will follow. Explore new passions, embrace learning, and stay positive.” - Sreekala G.R. (Khyaal Community Member)